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Been strict is sometimes not the best way to bring...

2012-04-02T06:26:16.623+01:00

Been strict is sometimes not the best way to bring up a child. It worked for you because you were still the good girl that you are...for some it won't work. They would rather want to find out what all the fuss about dropping the pants that mummy is always talking about. The best way out for me is talking to the child about the opposite sex and what and what not to do. That way the child knows what to expect and how to react to every situation.

Been strict is sometimes not the best way to bring...

2012-04-02T06:25:21.506+01:00

Your mom's moves i guess is a way of protectin...

2012-03-15T08:30:09.139Z

Your mom's moves i guess is a way of protecting you. But i wished that she should at least teach you some ways how to deal with opposite sex.

I think strict is much better than not oh. Adiya...

2011-12-15T20:29:10.996Z

I think strict is much better than not oh.

Adiya
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lol i can imagine. You mum was strict though. I gu...

2011-11-19T14:31:52.164Z

lol i can imagine. You mum was strict though. I guess that made you a better person today right?

I'm all for asking during the getting to know ...

2011-11-05T20:47:01.662Z

I'm all for asking during the getting to know you stage oh, but that being said it sort of puts a weird damper on the mood doesn't it? It's like you're seriously invading their privacy

Adiya
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Me, personally, for myself i may not ask in the be...

2011-10-30T00:39:33.442+01:00

Me, personally, for myself i may not ask in the beginning. I mean i may not even ask before sexual activity is involved as long as condoms are used EVERY SINGLE TIME. However if it's veering towards something more serious i would definitely ask.

I have a male friend who doesn't ask, he just insists you both get tested together and exchange results before any proceedings. Much simpler i think.

As for the AS situation, anyone who is a carrier should definitely ask early on in the "we're just talking" phase.

Sssshoo!!! I dont know about the HIV question o,, ...

2011-10-29T15:47:18.569+01:00

Sssshoo!!! I dont know about the HIV question o,, but I know that I asked my boyfriend about his genotype after about 3-4 full blown conversations.
I was this close to having a conversation as thus:
Him: hey can I have your number?
Me: Maybe, after you tell me your genotype.

iKid iKid, but the conversation came in pretty earlier even before we both knew where we were headed

Congrats on completing your NYSC, couldn't hav...

2011-10-22T01:50:25.935+01:00

Congrats on completing your NYSC, couldn't have been easy. All the best for the future.

I have often been accused of the exact same thing....

2011-10-10T07:09:46.710+01:00

I have often been accused of the exact same thing.But they don't understand the reason for my being quiet in comparison to them is that just like you i'm studying them body language etc much more information in that than a bunch of questions as if we were on a quiz show! Great blog by the way

"...getting to know people involves learning ...

2011-10-07T10:56:13.998+01:00

"...getting to know people involves learning how they think." tis all about intuition and not necessarily the interrogation.

Hahaha haha ha....

2011-10-07T10:50:02.376+01:00

Hahaha haha ha....

"As a woman, you probably wont feel bad if yo...

2011-09-08T19:24:42.620+01:00

"As a woman, you probably wont feel bad if you set the rule, as you'd expect that, as a man, he needs that 'release' once in a while."

If I asked a guy to abstain from sex before marrying me and he agreed to, I would expect that he's doing exactly as he said, as difficult as it may be for him to do.

I believe there are still honourable men out there.

SMH That guy is not serious. I have a strong feel...

2011-08-24T13:06:05.684+01:00

SMH

That guy is not serious. I have a strong feeling he is still "playing around"

I wonder how he would have felt if he knew that his wife was "playing" to her satisfaction as well. Probably furious.

The double standard strikes again.

He's not an exception.

2011-08-23T12:01:31.236+01:00

He's not an exception.

I'm sure i had a half sensible comment i came ...

2011-08-23T06:23:00.244+01:00

I'm sure i had a half sensible comment i came here to type but "ure a work of arts"?
Sorry i can't go on.
LOL!

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2011-08-22T14:10:19.949+01:00

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Here is what I do, I ask the same questions I have...

2011-07-28T18:56:17.037+01:00

Here is what I do, I ask the same questions I have been asked. The answers might reveal follow up questions. Goodluck

i've never really had to 'ask questions...

2011-07-22T16:51:03.683+01:00

i've never really had to 'ask questions'. there are just conversations that start off and veer off to so many places that after speaking to you a couple of times, i probably know a lot about you.

Lol... she might be unto something there o :) Enj...

2011-07-21T02:29:41.754+01:00

Lol... she might be unto something there o :)

Enjoy the rest of the week too. Strike-less though!

the girl should forget him...cos if she keeps stay...

2011-07-15T14:39:04.907+01:00

the girl should forget him...cos if she keeps staying , waiting n calling...i think it boosts his ego..so fashie him!

Lol.

2011-07-14T19:31:57.647+01:00

Lol.

I used to think Lagos drivers were crazy till I ca...

2011-07-14T17:26:51.199+01:00

I used to think Lagos drivers were crazy till I came to India. This ones are not high but drink like mad idiots. You need extra skills to cross the road.